How Should I Help My Child Handle Disappointments or Setbacks in Sports?

This is the fourth article in our “Big Questions in Youth Sports” series. For many parents, there are pressing questions related to youth sports that they just can't find the right answers to. SportsEngine wanted to provide some insights from youth and high school coaches in different sports, from across the country, who have achieved success and earned a reputation for positively developing student-athletes in different sports. Here are some of their answers on how a parent or guardian can help a child deal with disappointments or setbacks in sports.

 

SportsEngine HQ Roadmap: Step 6 – Build Your Communication Plan

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January 7, 2025 | 3 minutes, 0 seconds read

Now that the the website is up to date registration is prepped and ready, it’s time to connect with your members and keep them informed throughout the season. In Step 6 of the SportsEngine HQ Roadmap to Success, we’ll help you create a clear communication plan so everyone knows what to expect, when to expect it, and how to stay engaged.

Effective communication ensures families access key information like registration links, schedules, team updates, and important announcements. Whether you send messages to all members or targeted groups, SportsEngine HQ provides powerful tools to streamline the process.

Key Communication Tools in SportsEngine HQ

  1. Learn How to Share Your Registration Link
    Make it easy for members to register by sharing the link on your website, in emails, or through direct messaging.

    How-to Guide: How to Share My Registration Link with Members >

  2. Send Messages from Your Registration
    Send updates or reminders to members who have already registered for the upcoming season. This is perfect for follow-ups or sharing additional details.

    How-to Guide: How to Send a Message From a Registration >

  3. Discover How to Message Teams in Season Management
    Once members are rostered to teams, you can send targeted messages directly to specific teams. Keep coaches, parents, and athletes in the loop with quick updates.

    Learn More: Season Management – Messaging Teams >

  4. Expand your Communication Plans with Members from the Directory
    The Member Directory lets you send messages to individuals or large groups, ensuring no one misses critical updates.

    Learn More: How to Send Messages to Members from the Member Directory >

  5. Create Groups for Targeted Messaging
    Do you need to segment communications? Use filters to organize members into specific groups based on registration, team, or other criteria. This will help you send the right message to the right people.

    Learn More: How to Create Groups from the Members Tab >

Pro Tip: Use Smart Groups for Targeted Communication

SportsEngine HQ’s Smart Groups allow you to filter members based on specific registration details or answers to questions. Once created, these groups can be saved and used throughout the season to send targeted messages without manually sorting members each time.

Learn How to Create a Smart Group: Smart Group from a Registration >

Plan Your Messaging Strategy

When building your communication plan, consider the following:

  • Timing: When will you share registration links, schedules, and updates?
  • Audience: Are you sending messages to all members, specific teams, or targeted groups?
  • Method: Will you use emails, website updates, or in-platform messaging?

By planning and utilizing the tools in SportsEngine HQ, you’ll save time and ensure your communications are clear, consistent, and effective.

Next Stop: Prepare Your Staff and Volunteers

With your communication plan in place, you’re ready to support your staff, coaches, and volunteers as they prepare for the season. In Step 7, we’ll cover tools and tips to help you organize roles, streamline expectations, and align your team.

Need extra guidance? Visit the SportsEngine Help Center for step-by-step articles on messaging and communication tools.

You’ve got this—keep the momentum going! 🚀

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

About Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

Content Contributor at SportsEngine

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck is a marketer, writer, and podcast producer for SportsEngine, Inc. She currently works to provide solutions across various digital platforms to help increase youth sports participation, and share the love of sport. Kelsey grew up playing golf, softball, and dance in southeastern Minnesota. In her spare time, you can find her cheering on her favorite Minnesota Wild players, fulfilling her need for speed at a racetrack, or getting out for a trail run.

SportsEngine HQ Roadmap: Your Guide to Youth Sports Success

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December 30, 2024 | 2 minutes, 3 seconds read

Like any great venture—or road trip, if you will—it’s crucial to know where you’re starting and where you want to go. Whether you're a seasoned veteran in youth sports or a new coach ready to level up, SportsEngine HQ has the tools you need to thrive.

Getting started can often feel overwhelming, but don’t worry. We’ve gathered the resources and tips you need to hit the ground running. To simplify it, we’ve outlined the steps to keep you organized as you prepare for your first—or next—season. Think of this Roadmap to Success as your GPS for confidently planning, building, and managing your season.

But the journey doesn’t stop here. Along the way, we’ll continue to share tips, insights, and resources to help you navigate the nuances of youth sports. For even more ways to grow and stay informed, be sure to check out these helpful articles on the SportsEngine Blog:

  1. 5 Things Every Youth Sports Organization Should Know About the Safe Sport Act – Stay compliant and protect your athletes by understanding this critical legislation.
  2. How to Highlight Your Athlete in SportsEngine Play – Discover how to celebrate and showcase your athletes’ hard work and achievements.
  3. Connect and Grow Your Youth Sports Program with the SportsEngine Community – Build strong connections with fellow administrators, coaches, and parents.
  4. Dive into Safety: Ensuring Fun and Secure Registration for Youth Sports – Keep your registration process smooth, secure, and stress-free for everyone involved.

These blogs are packed with practical advice to help you connect, protect, and elevate your organization.

And remember, our team is with you every step of the way. If you need more support, head over to our SportsEngine Help Center and Training Camp for additional tools and resources.

Ready to start your season with confidence? Follow the Roadmap to Success to make this your best season yet! 🚀

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

About Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

Content Contributor at SportsEngine

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck is a marketer, writer, and podcast producer for SportsEngine, Inc. She currently works to provide solutions across various digital platforms to help increase youth sports participation, and share the love of sport. Kelsey grew up playing golf, softball, and dance in southeastern Minnesota. In her spare time, you can find her cheering on her favorite Minnesota Wild players, fulfilling her need for speed at a racetrack, or getting out for a trail run.

SportsEngine HQ Roadmap: Step 2 – Plan Your Season with SportsEngine HQ

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December 30, 2024 | 2 minutes, 52 seconds read

Now that you’ve mapped out your program’s big picture in Phase One, it’s time to dive deeper into the details. Step 2 of the SportsEngine HQ Roadmap to Success focuses on planning your season's core elements: participants, divisions, costs, and registration timelines. These foundational details will set the stage for smooth operations and help you make the most of SportsEngine HQ’s tools.

Key Elements to Consider

1. Number of Participants

Do you expect your numbers to grow, stay the same, or decline this season? Set realistic goals for participation and ensure you’re prepared with inventory limits to cap registrations and create waitlists if needed.

2. Levels of Play and Divisions

Determining your divisions and levels of play early on will influence your website setup, team creation, registration fees, and coaching assignments. Clear organization now will make things far smoother as your season progresses. 

  • Helpful Resource: League Basics >
  • Pro Tip: Dedicate individual pages on your website to each division or level of play. This helps families quickly find key details like schedules, fees, and age or skill-based information.

Need help creating divisions and organizing teams? Check out this Training Camp Video: League Basics to learn how to structure your programs seamlessly.

3. Participation Cost

One of the most common questions from parents and guardians: “How much does it cost?” You know the hard work (and expenses) that go into getting athletes on the field, so it’s essential to:

  • Account for your major cost drivers: Facilities, equipment, transportation, and staffing.
  • Balance costs with your organization’s size and offerings.
  • Communicate payment options: Set clear, flexible payment structures to make registration accessible for all families.

Up next, we’ll explore SportsEngine’s Registration tools to set up payment plans, early-bird discounts, and late fees with ease.

4. Registration Timeline

Registration is often your first impression for members—make it a great one! Plan key dates, like:

  1. Registration open/close windows.
  2. Tryout schedules and deadlines.
  3. Important holidays or school schedules to avoid conflicts.

Tip: Launch registration early to incentivize prompt sign-ups with early-bird discounts, and keep a clear window for late fees if needed.

Ready to Get Started?

With a solid plan in place, you’re ready to take the next step: using SportsEngine HQ to bring your vision to life. From setting up your website and registration to managing divisions and teams, we’ll guide you through every detail.

For more hands-on help, check out these Training Camp Videos:

With these tools and strategies, you’re on track to create a seamless experience for your members and a season they won’t forget. Stay tuned for Step 3, where we’ll tackle building out your website and setting up your first tasks in SportsEngine HQ.

Let’s keep this roadmap rolling! 🚀

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

About Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

Content Contributor at SportsEngine

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck is a marketer, writer, and podcast producer for SportsEngine, Inc. She currently works to provide solutions across various digital platforms to help increase youth sports participation, and share the love of sport. Kelsey grew up playing golf, softball, and dance in southeastern Minnesota. In her spare time, you can find her cheering on her favorite Minnesota Wild players, fulfilling her need for speed at a racetrack, or getting out for a trail run.

SportsEngine HQ Roadmap: Step 3 – Update Your Website for a Seamless Season

Content Contributor at SportsEngine

December 30, 2024 | 2 minutes, 53 seconds read

With your season plan in place, it’s time to take action! In Step Three of the SportsEngine HQ Roadmap to Success, we focus on preparing your website to ensure it’s ready for member traffic, registrations, and all the excitement of a new season. Your website is often the first stop for families and participants looking for important details—so let’s make it shine.

Why Update Your Website?

Before registration even opens, families are likely visiting your website for updates. An outdated or cluttered site can lead to confusion, so cleaning it up now will save you time (and questions) later. Here’s what to prioritize:

  • Remove outdated information: Old registration links, last season’s dates, and expired news.
  • Add the essentials: Registration timelines, tryout dates, costs, key announcements, and season expectations.
  • Polish the visuals: Refresh outdated branding and images, and ensure your navigation is clear and intuitive.

How to Get Started

 

1. Familiarize Yourself with Edit Mode
Before diving in, ensure you’re comfortable with Edit Mode—your gateway to updating and personalizing your site. This is where you can add, edit, and remove elements to ensure your website looks professional and is easy to use.

2. Remove Outdated Elements
Clearing away old content is crucial for reducing confusion. Take a quick scan and look for:

  • Past registration links
  • Old event dates or announcements
  • Outdated images, sponsors, or branding

Not sure how to delete a specific section or element? Follow this quick guide:

3. Add Fresh Content for the New Season
Ensure families can find everything they need with minimal effort. Consider adding:

  • Registration Information: Opening/closing dates, costs, and what’s included.
  • Tryout Details: Dates, locations, and any prep information.
  • Organization Announcements: New programs, staffing changes, or growth updates.
  • Contact Information: Make it easy for parents to reach out with questions.

If you’re creating a new section or page for your updates, check out this resource:

Website Best Practices

To ensure your website provides a top-notch experience:

  • Keep it simple and organized: Use clear headings and concise text.
  • Prioritize what’s most important: Place registration and tryout details front and center.
  • Stay mobile-friendly: Many users will access your site from their phones—ensure pages load quickly and are easy to navigate.

For more help, explore the Website Section of Our Help Center for comprehensive articles and video tutorials.

What’s Next?

With your website updated and looking great, you’re ready for the next stop on the roadmap: setting up divisions and teams in SportsEngine HQ. Stay tuned for Step 4, where we’ll streamline your program structure to keep your season running smoothly.

By putting in the work now, you’re setting your organization up for a seamless and stress-free start. 

Let’s keep the momentum going! 🚀

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

About Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

Content Contributor at SportsEngine

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck is a marketer, writer, and podcast producer for SportsEngine, Inc. She currently works to provide solutions across various digital platforms to help increase youth sports participation, and share the love of sport. Kelsey grew up playing golf, softball, and dance in southeastern Minnesota. In her spare time, you can find her cheering on her favorite Minnesota Wild players, fulfilling her need for speed at a racetrack, or getting out for a trail run.

SportsEngine HQ Roadmap: Step 4 – Set Up Clubs, Leagues, and Teams

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December 30, 2024 | 2 minutes, 1 second read

You’ve mapped out your program, polished your website, and spread the word about your offerings. Now it’s time to roll up your sleeves and bring your season to life! In Step 4 of the SportsEngine HQ Roadmap to Success, you’ll set up your season, build divisions and teams, and activate team pages—ensuring everything runs smoothly for your members.

Get Started with Season Management

 

Your Season Management tools live in the Competition Tab of SportsEngine HQ. Here, you can:

  1. Create a Season – Start fresh or copy a previous season’s setup.
  2. Set Up Divisions and Teams & Activate Team Pages – Add divisions, roster teams, and organize your season’s structure. Then, seamlessly connect your teams to your website to ensure all members can access schedules, rosters, and updates.
  • Pro Tips for Success:
    • Decide Your Starting Point: If last year’s setup worked well, save time by copying the same layout. Starting fresh? Build with the current season’s goals in mind.
    • Return and Adjust Anytime Things change—we get it! You can always revisit your season to add or remove teams, adjust registration dates, or tweak settings.

Wrap-Up Phase One

Congratulations! By completing Step 4, you’ve tackled a bulk of the behind-the-scenes work:
✅ Mapped out your program
✅ Updated your website
✅ Built your divisions and teams

Next up: Phase Two, where we’ll focus on building registrations, communicating with members, and preparing your staff for a smooth and successful season.

Need a refresher? Visit the SportsEngine Help Center for step-by-step guidance at any point.

You’re officially ready to bring your season to life—let’s keep this roadmap rolling! 🚀

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

About Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

Content Contributor at SportsEngine

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck is a marketer, writer, and podcast producer for SportsEngine, Inc. She currently works to provide solutions across various digital platforms to help increase youth sports participation, and share the love of sport. Kelsey grew up playing golf, softball, and dance in southeastern Minnesota. In her spare time, you can find her cheering on her favorite Minnesota Wild players, fulfilling her need for speed at a racetrack, or getting out for a trail run.

SportsEngine HQ Roadmap: Step 5 – Kick Off Registration for Your Season

Content Contributor at SportsEngine

December 30, 2024 | 2 minutes, 39 seconds read

Welcome to Phase Two of the SportsEngine HQ Roadmap to Success. What better way to start than with registration? Registration is the first interaction many families have with your program, so let’s make it seamless, efficient, and stress-free for everyone involved.

Through SportsEngine HQ Registration, you can collect all the essential information you need—from contact details and payments to uploaded documents and program selections. Plus, returning families can easily register by using their existing SportsEngine accounts, saving them time and reducing errors.

How-To Customize Registration to Fit Your Needs

1. Plan Your Timeline

In Phase One, we mapped out your registration timeline. Now’s the time to build your forms and leave room for last-minute edits before opening day. Staying organized ensures a smooth kickoff when it’s time to hit "go."

2. Request Your Registration Build or Do-It-Yourself

Kickstart Your Registration with Our Team

Don’t want to build your registration form from scratch? SportsEngine has you covered! Submit a Registration Request Form with your organization’s details, and our dedicated Registration Team will handle the heavy lifting.

  • Helpful Resource: How to Request a Registration >
  • Pro Tip for Success: If you’re reusing a form from a past season, simply provide the link to the previous registration along with any necessary updates (fees, payment plans, or new fields). This saves time and ensures consistency.

DIY: Customize and Edit Your Registration on Your Own Time

Prefer to manage registration yourself? SportsEngine HQ makes it easy to build and customize forms tailored to your program’s needs. Add specific questions, required document uploads, and pricing structures directly in the Registration Builder.

  • Helpful Resource: Registration Builder Guide >
  • Pro Tip for Success: Leave room for flexibility in your registration process. Whether it’s payment plan options, fee adjustments, or adding new questions, you can always make edits as needed in SportsEngine HQ.

Why SportsEngine HQ Registration Simplifies Your Season

Ease of Use: Parents and guardians can quickly register athletes using their SportsEngine accounts.
Customizable Forms: Collect exactly the information you need for a smooth season.
Flexible Payment Options: Offer payment plans, early-bird discounts, or late fees to accommodate families.
Time-Saving Tools: Copy past registrations to save time and streamline your setup.

Next Up: Communicate and Prepare Your Team

With registration up and running, you’ve laid the groundwork for a successful season kickoff. In Step 6, we’ll focus on communicating with members, organizing your staff, and setting expectations for the season ahead.

Need more guidance? Explore the Help Center or use our step-by-step Registration Builder Guide for on-demand support.

You’ve got this—let’s keep building your roadmap to success! 🚀

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

About Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

Content Contributor at SportsEngine

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck is a marketer, writer, and podcast producer for SportsEngine, Inc. She currently works to provide solutions across various digital platforms to help increase youth sports participation, and share the love of sport. Kelsey grew up playing golf, softball, and dance in southeastern Minnesota. In her spare time, you can find her cheering on her favorite Minnesota Wild players, fulfilling her need for speed at a racetrack, or getting out for a trail run.

SportsEngine HQ Roadmap: Step 9 – Roster Teams and Connect Your Community

Content Contributor at SportsEngine

December 30, 2024 | 1 minute, 36 seconds read

With your teams planned and all member details gathered through registration, it’s time to roster players and staff to their respective teams. In Step 9 of the SportsEngine HQ Roadmap to Success, you’ll bring your season to life by organizing rosters and enabling team communication through the SportsEngine mobile app.

Once rostered, players, parents, and staff members will be connected through the mobile app for team chats, schedules, and RSVPs, making communication seamless all season long.

Step 1: Roster Players and Staff

Assigning players and staff to their teams is easy with Season Management in SportsEngine HQ. Rostering not only keeps your teams organized but also ensures that everyone is properly connected within your system.

Step 2: Connect Through the SportsEngine Mobile App

Once your teams are rostered, players, parents, and staff will have access to the SportsEngine mobile app. This app is a game-changer for communication, allowing everyone to:
Chat with team members
View schedules and game updates
RSVP to games and events

Encourage your members to download the app for easy team management on the go.

You’re Almost Game-Ready! 🚀

With your teams rostered and communication tools activated, you’re nearing the finish line. In Step 10, we’ll tackle creating schedules and managing team interactions to ensure a seamless season from start to finish.

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

About Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

Content Contributor at SportsEngine

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck is a marketer, writer, and podcast producer for SportsEngine, Inc. She currently works to provide solutions across various digital platforms to help increase youth sports participation, and share the love of sport. Kelsey grew up playing golf, softball, and dance in southeastern Minnesota. In her spare time, you can find her cheering on her favorite Minnesota Wild players, fulfilling her need for speed at a racetrack, or getting out for a trail run.

SportsEngine HQ Roadmap: Step 10 – Final Step: Schedule Games and Manage Invoices

Content Contributor at SportsEngine

December 30, 2024 | 1 minute, 55 seconds read

You’ve planned your season, rostered your teams, and set up your communication channels. Now, it’s time to build your schedule and handle any remaining payments. In Step 10—the final step of the SportsEngine HQ Roadmap to Success—we’ll walk you through the tools available in Season Management to create your schedule and manage invoicing.

Let’s finish strong and get your season game-ready!

1. Scheduling Options in Season Management

SportsEngine HQ’s Season Management tools offer flexible scheduling options to suit your needs:

2. Manage Invoices for Additional Fees

Once registration is complete, you may need to collect additional payments for things like gear, uniforms, or tournament fees. SportsEngine HQ makes it easy to send invoices to individuals or groups, and members can pay directly from their SportsEngine accounts.

Pro Tip: Use invoices throughout the season to manage extra costs efficiently.

Congratulations! You’ve Completed the Roadmap to Success

With your season fully planned, your team's roster, and your schedule complete, you’ve reached the final step in the SportsEngine HQ Roadmap to Success. You’re now ready to run a smooth, organized season from start to finish.

Need additional help? Explore the Help Center for more tips and tricks to make the most of SportsEngine HQ.

Here’s to your best season yet! 🚀

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

About Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

Content Contributor at SportsEngine

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck is a marketer, writer, and podcast producer for SportsEngine, Inc. She currently works to provide solutions across various digital platforms to help increase youth sports participation, and share the love of sport. Kelsey grew up playing golf, softball, and dance in southeastern Minnesota. In her spare time, you can find her cheering on her favorite Minnesota Wild players, fulfilling her need for speed at a racetrack, or getting out for a trail run.

SportsEngine HQ Roadmap: Step 7 – Set Up and Support Your Coaching Team

Content Contributor at SportsEngine

December 30, 2024 | 2 minutes, 21 seconds read

You’ve planned your program and mapped out your teams—now it’s time to staff them! In Step 7 of the SportsEngine HQ Roadmap to Success, we’ll guide you through setting up your coaching team. Whether your organization depends on volunteers or paid staff, it’s important to have a structured process for recruiting, registering, and supporting coaches.

A well-prepared coaching team is the foundation for a successful season. Let’s discuss how to prepare your staff and ensure they’re equipped to support your athletes.

Steps to Set Up Your Coaching Team

1. Build a Checklist

Start by outlining your requirements for coaches and staff:

  1. Do coaches need specific certifications?
  2. Are background checks or training necessary?
  3. What documentation do you need to track?
     
  • Pro Tip for Success: Post your checklist on your website so potential coaches know what’s expected.

2. Set Up Registrations and Screenings

The registration process for coaches is similar to athlete registration. Here’s how to get started:

  1. Submit a Registration Request Form and select the registration type as Coach/Staff Signup.
  2. Collect contact information and ask specific questions, such as:
    1. Which age group or skill level are they interested in coaching?
    2. What is their availability for practices and games?

If your organization is part of a National Governing Body, you may already have requirements for safety training and certifications. If not, SportsEngine HQ can help you request safety sessions and set up background checks to ensure compliance.

3. Create a Coaches Web Page

Make it easy for your coaches to access important information by creating a dedicated web page. Include:

  1. Details on coach registration and background screening.
  2. Season rules and regulations.
  3. Helpful resources and training guides.

Pro Tip: For new staff members, include links to the Help Center to help them navigate team management tools in SportsEngine HQ.

Wrap-Up Phase Two

Congratulations! You’ve completed Phase Two of the Roadmap to Success. Your season plan is in place, your website is updated, registration is open, and your coaching team is ready to go.

In Phase Three, we’ll cover registrationsexecute your communications plan, and create program listings.

Let’s keep this roadmap rolling! 🚀

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

About Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck

Content Contributor at SportsEngine

Kelsey Erwin-Formaneck is a marketer, writer, and podcast producer for SportsEngine, Inc. She currently works to provide solutions across various digital platforms to help increase youth sports participation, and share the love of sport. Kelsey grew up playing golf, softball, and dance in southeastern Minnesota. In her spare time, you can find her cheering on her favorite Minnesota Wild players, fulfilling her need for speed at a racetrack, or getting out for a trail run.